Day to day life in a disconnected marriage or long term relationship can be painful. Yet deciding to throw in the towel on your relationship and go it alone can also be painful, so it is important to reflect on things before taking action. In my new video (scroll to bottom to watch) I share 6 crucial questions to ask yourself before making a decision and be sure to pay attention to Question #6 which might be the most important question of all.
Summer Time and the Living’s Easy…
Hello!
Hope you are having an easy, breezy summer so far. Our summer has been pretty chill, we have been at home and doing all things staycation. We are off up the coast soon but I must say it has been nice to be close to home, getting caught up on household tasks and being able to spend more time out in my garden. Plus the weather has been amazing!
Last year right after our boys school ended we left for the U.K and although it was a memorable trip it was quite a whirlwind and it seemed we were hardly at home for July & August. So a different pace this summer to be sure. The above shot was taken on a relaxed Saturday morning , post workout, just me and my coffee and a good murder mystery. Simple things can make a gal happy!
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
In this new video I talk about how I was at a coaching workshop and the facilitator was listening to a participant who was having trouble deciding between Option A or Option B. The facilitator said;
“There are goodies if you stay and goodies if you go and there also is pain if you stay and likely pain if you go”.
Of course we always want the best possible outcome out of any situation and that is why it is important to take your time and reflect when it comes to big decisions like staying in your marriage or long-term relationship or leaving. If you find yourself in this challenging position I hope the 6 key questions that I pose in the video helps clarify things a bit. Click on the image below to watch.
That’s it from me.
Have a fabulous August!
xo
Elizabeth